Love Warrior
Lovers…
Do me a favor
and let’s go on an impromptu
“pleasure hunt”
with each other.
You game?
Perfect.
Now, take a conscious breathing moment
to get IN touch and present
with yourself…
deeply inhaling in
and slowwwly exhaling out…ahhhhh, yessss
Standing
in the decadent resonance
of my authentic voice…
I speak my truth and desires
effortlessly into existence.
I’m not on the planet to play small.
I’m here to take up as much farking space
as I desire and lead the way for others
to do the same or even better—
especially older women
who’ve been put in the closet
by archaic societal conditioning
to become invisible
as their physical skinbags wither and age.
F*ck that shyte.
Mama’s not going in the closet.
I refuse to shrink and become invisible.
Continue reading “The Older I Become…the Brighter My Essence Glows”Are you fluent in playing all 88 keys of your instrument? Your body, that is—the divinely created instrument uniquely designed to give and receive pleasure.
The more fluent you are as a lover to your own body, the better you can teach your partner how your body desires to be played.
Tip o’ the hat to John Mayer, because Yessss, it’s true—your body is, indeed, a “Wonderland.”
One of the most frequent complaints my clients have when they come to me is that, despite a happy partnership, when it comes to their sex life…
…they’re completely unaware of what turns their OWN body ON, much less their partner’s body.
Continue reading “How does your body like to be played?”When I’m working with people who’ve lost their connection to their sexuality…especially older beings who self-identify as women, I ask them, “if you could have whatever you wanted and desired around your sex life, what would that look like to you?”
Most of the time, they have no idea. We aren’t accustomed to asking ourselves what we really want around our sexuality because we’ve spent a lifetime of settling—shrinking from our power—
paralyzed
by our internalized patriarchal conditioning of thinking that we can’t or are not allowed to ask for what we desire…and actually have it.
Continue reading “Reclaiming Your Sacred Queen Cronedom”
Beloveds…let’s just get real. What is it that lights you the fu*k up? What are the passions that get your inner fires blazing? What breaks your heart wide open and moves you to make a freakin’ difference in the world? What does the world need that only you can bring?
Let me tell you how you start to figure it out. You reclaim your access to your divine £rotic Power and fall madly in love with yourself…every.single.piece&part…your perfectly imperfect delicious body, your exquisitely brilliantly curious mind, and your deeply loving heart-centric soul. And then you tend the fires of the creative radiance inside you…until you are burning with a passion to share your gifts with the world.
Because whatever your unique gift is…the world needs it. Now. Stop playing so small and share the fark out of your LoveLight.
And hey…I love you.
*If you’re ready and committed to experiencing a deep and profound love of yourself and reconnect to your full access to pleasure, it would be my honor to assist you in rediscovering your “Pleasure Dome.” Click HERE to schedule an Erotic Power Breakthrough Session with me and we’ll create a plan!
Menopause hit me like a freight train running. And before I knew it, I was in the murky swamp of post-menopause, with no signs of a libido: feeling old, tired, invisible and thinking I was completely dried up not only sexually, but it totally felt as though my life-light was going out.
The sudden waxing and waning of my hormones was wreaking havoc on my body, mind and soul. And what the hell was happening to my sexy hotness that usually turned heads when I walked into the room? Oh my gawd, I was becoming invisible. It was happening. I was becoming, and lean in as I whisper it, an old lady.
Shhhhhhhh…I had to keep it a secret. I wasn’t quite ready for the transition.
Growing up on stage as a performer since I was a child, I was quite aware of the unfortunate conditioned construct placed upon female performers that once they start aging, they’re in danger of being unattractive and all washed up, and becoming invisible.
I was feeling it.
The patriarchy has done quite the number on people in general around our sexuality, but especially on older self-identified women in leading us to believe that we lose ownership of our erotic power as we get older.
It’s a myth, y’all.
I discovered this for certain when I was introduced to the teachings of the Erotic Blueprints™️ and boom, mama literally got her groove back!
The more I immersed myself in the teachings, the more I cleared shadows of childhood sexual abuse and returned to a profound love of self.
I’ve never felt more vibrantly alive and free; not only in my sexuality, but I see it showing up in all areas of my life.
I want this for everyone on the planet.
Let me help you reclaim. Click here to connect with me to see if we’re a good fit for the journey.
We’re not socially conditioned to put pleasure as a priority in our lives. We’re conditioned to obey authority, work long hours, waste our money on material things we think will make us happy, and we’re conditioned to squelch our natural primal sexual desires. However, putting pleasure first, especially our sexual pleasure, keeps us vibrantly alive and in our full power. Being in touch with our “Pleasure Dome” keeps us in successful relationships with our partners, as well as ourselves.
We’ve been taught to believe that sexual pleasure is taboo, bad, sinful and something we just don’t freely talk about. We’re offered a bare minimum, inadequate or even medically incorrect sex education in middle school, then left to figure it out on our own as we haphazardly make our way through romantic relationships, partnerships, marriages, separations and divorces. In the ancient days of some cultures, young men and women were schooled in the art of sex and how to pleasure themselves and their partners. It’s a shame the art of giving and receiving pleasure has been lost in the western culture; especially since being fully expressed sexually keeps us happy, loving and living a life that is radiantly vibrant.
Continue reading “Reclaiming the Pleasure Dome”And here’s a nugget of awakening: It’s an absolute myth that sexual pleasure stops at a certain age and that as we get older we’re no longer sexually vital or attractive with our wrinkles, age spots and sagging skin.
“Sexuality is a superpower. Our attractions and repulsions, sexual signals and links, hopes and disappointments go through all of society like a nervous system, permeating every office, every shopping mall, every art exhibition, every conference, every group, every company, every political party. The healing of sexuality is perhaps the most revolutionary step in the present healing work after thousands of years of suppression and neglect.”
DIETER DUHM
There are so many beautiful “rooms” in the Pleasure Dome that have been hidden to us by society’s patriarchal conditioning that sexual pleasure is dirty, forbidden, sinful and taboo. But, this is the thing…sexual pleasure is our birthright. At our core, as my teacher and mentor Jaiya has so eloquently expressed, “we are erotically sophisticated beings and our bodies are our instruments of pleasure,” yet most of us do not fully understand how to play our own instrument nor how to instruct our partners on how to do so.
A true understanding of the power of the primordial creative force of our sexuality has been kept from us by the patriarchal religions as a means of domination and control. When we are deeply connected to the sacredness of our sexuality and living a fully sex-expressed life, all areas of our life are affected in a profoundly powerful way. When we are connected to and own our full sexuality, we are living a life filled with vitality, power, pleasure, joy, sovereignty, and most of all, deep love for ourselves and humanity.
Here’s to humanity’s reconnecting to the source of our true power, breaking through the chains of society’s conditioning, and creating a world where everyone is accepted and feels as though they belong. Let freedom ring.
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“Chains…each link is connected…creating strength and resilience to withstand the impending….granting a since of freedom…” ~Jefry
*If you’re ready to experience a deep and profound love of yourself and reconnect to your full access to pleasure, it would be my honor to assist you in rediscovering your “Pleasure Dome.” Reach out to me at contact@bethlovemore.com and we’ll create an action plan for you.
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During these challenging times, it is more important than ever to keep our body, mind and spirits healthy and well with as much pleasure and vitality as possible. As we are facing the uncertainty of the unknown in our isolation, we are being given the opportunity for deepening the pleasure connection with ourselves and with our partners. Most of us have been so busy being busy that we have flat out lost our connection to our bodies or don’t know how to ask for what we want in the bedroom. No more taboo. As we move into creating new paradigms, It’s time for us all to have what we deserve around our sexuality.
What kind of lover are you? Do you know? Did you know that we all have our own personal erotic blueprint that determines how we like to be fed in our sexuality? The 5 primary Erotic Blueprints™ are: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky and Shapeshifter. The power of learning the Erotic Blueprints™ is that we get to honor ourselves and our partners by learning what best feeds our own personal blueprints. Take the quiz here to find out what your Erotic Blueprint™ is.
In the Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Course, we get to deep dive into a powerful exploration around what our primary Erotic Blueprint™ is and look at how we can heal it and expand into other blueprints; giving us access to pleasure portals we may not have known existed. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, the Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Course is a game-changer in deepening your relationships and living a life filled with pleasure. To enroll in this life-changing program, click here.
Join me in the new revolution of sexual healing and erotic freedom and rewaken your access to pleasure!
BethLovemore 