How does your body like to be played?

Are you fluent in playing all 88 keys of your instrument? Your body, that is—the divinely created instrument uniquely designed to give and receive pleasure.

The more fluent you are as a lover to your own body, the better you can teach your partner how your body desires to be played.

Tip o’ the hat to John Mayer, because Yessss, it’s true—your body is, indeed, a Wonderland.”

One of the most frequent complaints my clients have when they come to me is that, despite a happy partnership, when it comes to their sex life…

…they’re completely unaware of what turns their OWN body ON, much less their partner’s body.

Dear lovers…come here.

I’ve got the codes to help you break yourselves open to new realms of your s xuality you didn’t even know you were craving!

With the life-altering teachings of the Erotic Blueprints ™ as our foundation, I guide you through a deep dive into…

• how you’re wired for arousal

• what turns your body on and what turns it off

• how to feed yourself and your lover in each of your blueprints

• peeling back the layers and integrating any shadows showing up as limiting beliefs

• breaking yourself open to a deep love of self

• reclaiming your voice in speaking your needs with your partner and in all areas of your life

• setting you up for juicy, blazing s x for a lifetime!

…and so so so much more…

Click here to take the free or in-depth Erotic Blueprint Quiz!

Note! (From 11/30/22 to 12/5/22, please use promotional code Love to take advantage of the special pricing of the “In-Depth” quiz for only $9!)

Click here to schedule a discovery call to work with me privately or to schedule a 1:1 full day Erotic Blueprint Immersion here with me in Asheville.

PS…I have holiday specials in the bag as we speak! Contact me for more info on my holiday offerings!

Reclaiming Your Sacred Queen Cronedom

When I’m working with people who’ve lost their connection to their sexuality…especially older beings who self-identify as women, I ask them, “if you could have whatever you wanted and desired around your sex life, what would that look like to you?”

Most of the time, they have no idea. We aren’t accustomed to asking ourselves what we really want around our sexuality because we’ve spent a lifetime of settling—shrinking from our power—


by our internalized patriarchal conditioning of thinking that we can’t or are not allowed to ask for what we desire…and actually have it.

Deep within our DNA, we still carry the wounds of our ancestors who were burned at the stake for standing in their power. The whispers of this ancient wounding in our bones has so often kept our voices quiet.

And by our not asking, we have been disconnected from the power of our inner fire and vital life force—

our sacred sexuality—

and not only disconnected to what that creative energy brings to ourselves, but what the Divine power of our sacred sexuality as older women brings to the world.


Are you ready to reclaim your voice and have whatever you desire around your sexuality…and in all areas of your life?

What are you waiting for?

Come deep dive into a delicious 6 month immersion of who you are as an Erotic Being as we explore the life-altering teachings of the Erotic Blueprints™️ .

Click link HERE to schedule a free Erotic Power Breakthrough session to see if we’re a good fit to journey together.

Reclaiming the Pleasure Dome

Reclaiming the Pleasure Dome

Pleasure First

We’re not socially conditioned to put pleasure as a priority in our lives. We’re conditioned to obey authority, work long hours, waste our money on material things we think will make us happy, and we’re conditioned to squelch our natural primal sexual desires. However, putting pleasure first, especially our sexual pleasure, keeps us vibrantly alive and in our full power. Being in touch with our “Pleasure Dome” keeps us in successful relationships with our partners, as well as ourselves.

We’ve been taught to believe that sexual pleasure is taboo, bad, sinful and something we just don’t freely talk about. We’re offered a bare minimum, inadequate or even medically incorrect sex education in middle school, then left to figure it out on our own as we haphazardly make our way through romantic relationships, partnerships, marriages, separations and divorces. In the ancient days of some cultures, young men and women were schooled in the art of sex and how to pleasure themselves and their partners. It’s a shame the art of giving and receiving pleasure has been lost in the western culture; especially since being fully expressed sexually keeps us happy, loving and living a life that is radiantly vibrant.

And here’s a nugget of awakening: It’s an absolute myth that sexual pleasure stops at a certain age and that as we get older we’re no longer sexually vital or attractive with our wrinkles, age spots and sagging skin.

Pleasure in the Middle Ages & Beyond

Yes, it’s true that our parts don’t function quite as sharply as they did when we were younger. But, three of the most important aspects of arousal as we age are anticipation, mindfulness and presence. We can also pleasure our lover through touch, taste and creative exploration with no expectations other than the allowing of the giving and receiving of nurturance. The most important thing to remember is to remain playful and open to discovering or re-discovering what feels good as we embrace our aging sexuality.

We can experience hot sexual pleasure for the rest of our lives, with or without a partner, as long as we stay healthy, maintain a sexy attitude by owning our sexuality, and keep open communication with our lovers. In fact, sex is sort of like an anti-aging activity; the more sex we have, the more sexually vibrant we become. Like a good, fine wine, sex can be more satisfying and we can become more adventurous in our explorations of our sexuality as we age.

Exploring the Pleasure Dome

Some may finally feel free to explore and experiment in “rooms” of the Pleasure Dome they had been afraid to venture into or never knew existed at an earlier age. As the saying goes, “with age comes wisdom” and that applies to our sexuality as well. With our aging sexual wisdom comes the understanding that our aging bodies arouse differently. If you’re only playing in one area of your Pleasure Dome, try expanding your sexual expression and become fluent in areas you’ve never considered exploring. Experiment and get your pleasure on!

Tune in and discover what pleasures you or you and your lover. Stretch the boundaries by adding fantasy and sensation play, erotica or kink. Self-pleasure yourselves with each other. Build anticipation by exploring the senses of taste, sound, touch, sight, and smell. Be daring, though discreet, and have sex outside surrounded by nature. Make delicious foods for you and your lover and sensually feed each other. Read or write your own erotic poetry and share with your lover. And, of course, it can be super fun to add new toys to your “pleasure cave” adventures. With toys, don’t forget a good water-based lube!

Find something that relaxes you/your lover such as decadent baths or massages together. Relaxation fosters confidence and comfort and can help with both erectile dysfunction and dryness issues. Also, giving and receiving without any agenda of orgasm is a delicious experience of pure pleasure. The options are truly limitless.

So, join me in the new revolution of sexual healing and erotic freedom! Declare for yourselves a rebirthing, reawakening and reclaiming of your access to full, unabashed, sexual freedom to live a life filled with more pleasure, more sex, and more love!

© 2020 bethlovemore