Love Warrior
Lovers…
Do me a favor
and let’s go on an impromptu
“pleasure hunt”
with each other.
You game?
Perfect.
Now, take a conscious breathing moment
to get IN touch and present
with yourself…
deeply inhaling in
and slowwwly exhaling out…ahhhhh, yessss
Standing
in the decadent resonance
of my authentic voice…
I speak my truth and desires
effortlessly into existence.
I’m not on the planet to play small.
I’m here to take up as much farking space
as I desire and lead the way for others
to do the same or even better—
especially older women
who’ve been put in the closet
by archaic societal conditioning
to become invisible
as their physical skinbags wither and age.
F*ck that shyte.
Mama’s not going in the closet.
I refuse to shrink and become invisible.
Continue reading “The Older I Become…the Brighter My Essence Glows”Are you fluent in playing all 88 keys of your instrument? Your body, that is—the divinely created instrument uniquely designed to give and receive pleasure.
The more fluent you are as a lover to your own body, the better you can teach your partner how your body desires to be played.
Tip o’ the hat to John Mayer, because Yessss, it’s true—your body is, indeed, a “Wonderland.”
One of the most frequent complaints my clients have when they come to me is that, despite a happy partnership, when it comes to their sex life…
…they’re completely unaware of what turns their OWN body ON, much less their partner’s body.
Continue reading “How does your body like to be played?”When I’m working with people who’ve lost their connection to their sexuality…especially older beings who self-identify as women, I ask them, “if you could have whatever you wanted and desired around your sex life, what would that look like to you?”
Most of the time, they have no idea. We aren’t accustomed to asking ourselves what we really want around our sexuality because we’ve spent a lifetime of settling—shrinking from our power—
paralyzed
by our internalized patriarchal conditioning of thinking that we can’t or are not allowed to ask for what we desire…and actually have it.
Continue reading “Reclaiming Your Sacred Queen Cronedom”
We’re not socially conditioned to put pleasure as a priority in our lives. We’re conditioned to obey authority, work long hours, waste our money on material things we think will make us happy, and we’re conditioned to squelch our natural primal sexual desires. However, putting pleasure first, especially our sexual pleasure, keeps us vibrantly alive and in our full power. Being in touch with our “Pleasure Dome” keeps us in successful relationships with our partners, as well as ourselves.
We’ve been taught to believe that sexual pleasure is taboo, bad, sinful and something we just don’t freely talk about. We’re offered a bare minimum, inadequate or even medically incorrect sex education in middle school, then left to figure it out on our own as we haphazardly make our way through romantic relationships, partnerships, marriages, separations and divorces. In the ancient days of some cultures, young men and women were schooled in the art of sex and how to pleasure themselves and their partners. It’s a shame the art of giving and receiving pleasure has been lost in the western culture; especially since being fully expressed sexually keeps us happy, loving and living a life that is radiantly vibrant.
Continue reading “Reclaiming the Pleasure Dome”And here’s a nugget of awakening: It’s an absolute myth that sexual pleasure stops at a certain age and that as we get older we’re no longer sexually vital or attractive with our wrinkles, age spots and sagging skin.
BethLovemore 