To Know Yourself is the Power

“To know yourself and own yourself—

and live from that—

that’s empowerment.”

– Jaiya

The powerful words above 

from my mentor—

world-renowned Somatic Sexologist

and creator of the Erotic Blueprints™️, 

Jaiya—

are potent medicine, especially now,

for the liberation of us all. 

To know yourself and own who you are…

and express it—freely—

that’s solid gold power 

that No one can take away from you. 

Wanna go on a Pleasure Hunt?

Lovers…
Do me a favor
and let’s go on an impromptu
“pleasure hunt”
with each other.

You game?

Perfect.

Now, take a conscious breathing moment
to get IN touch and present
with yourself…
deeply inhaling in
and slowwwly exhaling out…ahhhhh, yessss

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The Older I Become…the Brighter My Essence Glows

Standing
in the decadent resonance
of my authentic voice…
I speak my truth and desires
effortlessly into existence.

I’m not on the planet to play small.

I’m here to take up as much farking space
as I desire and lead the way for others
to do the same or even better—
especially older women
who’ve been put in the closet
by archaic societal conditioning
to become invisible
as their physical skinbags wither and age.

F*ck that shyte.
Mama’s not going in the closet.

I refuse to shrink and become invisible.

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How does your body like to be played?

Are you fluent in playing all 88 keys of your instrument? Your body, that is—the divinely created instrument uniquely designed to give and receive pleasure.

The more fluent you are as a lover to your own body, the better you can teach your partner how your body desires to be played.

Tip o’ the hat to John Mayer, because Yessss, it’s true—your body is, indeed, a “Wonderland.”

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What Fuels Your Love-Light?

Beloveds…let’s just get real. What is it that lights you the fu*k up? What are the passions that get your inner fires blazing? What breaks your heart wide open and moves you to make a freakin’ difference in the world? What does the world need that only you can bring?

Let me tell you how you start to figure it out. You reclaim your access to your divine £rotic Power and fall madly in love with yourself…every.single.piece&part…your perfectly imperfect delicious body, your exquisitely brilliantly curious mind, and your deeply loving heart-centric soul. And then you tend the fires of the creative radiance inside you…until you are burning with a passion to share your gifts with the world.

Because whatever your unique gift is…the world needs it. Now. Stop playing so small and share the fark out of your LoveLight.
And hey…I love you.