Love Warrior
“To know yourself and own yourself—
and live from that—
that’s empowerment.”
– Jaiya
The powerful words above
from my mentor—
world-renowned Somatic Sexologist
and creator of the Erotic Blueprints™️,
Jaiya—
are potent medicine, especially now,
for the liberation of us all.
To know yourself and own who you are…
and express it—freely—
that’s solid gold power
that No one can take away from you.
We connect to the power of our Eros…
by re-membering the Divinity
of our wildness…
by going deep
within the cradle of the forest
and RESTING in Her arms…
by connecting
to the Holy Space of our creativity
and creating positive change in the world…
by honoring the resonance of our voice
and speaking our truth…
by reclaiming BEing IN p.leasure
as our natural state of Being…
by living and loving
from the golden radiance of our hearts…
by creating balance and Union
through the Holy marriage and embodiment
of the masculine and feminine within us all…
by celebrating wildly and out loud
when we witness others
doing the same…
in re-membering that we ARE
Eros itself.
Our primal Eros reveals
Herself
in these sacred moments.
It IS our essence,
and expressed,
it becomes an open path
to the Divine.
Our vibrant pro-creative energy
moves everything
toward togetherness…
and our true erotic power
is re-awakened,
re-charged,
re-newed.
Lovers…
Do me a favor
and let’s go on an impromptu
“pleasure hunt”
with each other.
You game?
Perfect.
Now, take a conscious breathing moment
to get IN touch and present
with yourself…
deeply inhaling in
and slowwwly exhaling out…ahhhhh, yessss
Standing
in the decadent resonance
of my authentic voice…
I speak my truth and desires
effortlessly into existence.
I’m not on the planet to play small.
I’m here to take up as much farking space
as I desire and lead the way for others
to do the same or even better—
especially older women
who’ve been put in the closet
by archaic societal conditioning
to become invisible
as their physical skinbags wither and age.
F*ck that shyte.
Mama’s not going in the closet.
I refuse to shrink and become invisible.
Continue reading “The Older I Become…the Brighter My Essence Glows”Are you fluent in playing all 88 keys of your instrument? Your body, that is—the divinely created instrument uniquely designed to give and receive pleasure.
The more fluent you are as a lover to your own body, the better you can teach your partner how your body desires to be played.
Tip o’ the hat to John Mayer, because Yessss, it’s true—your body is, indeed, a “Wonderland.”
Continue reading “How does your body like to be played?”
Beloveds…let’s just get real. What is it that lights you the fu*k up? What are the passions that get your inner fires blazing? What breaks your heart wide open and moves you to make a freakin’ difference in the world? What does the world need that only you can bring?
Let me tell you how you start to figure it out. You reclaim your access to your divine £rotic Power and fall madly in love with yourself…every.single.piece&part…your perfectly imperfect delicious body, your exquisitely brilliantly curious mind, and your deeply loving heart-centric soul. And then you tend the fires of the creative radiance inside you…until you are burning with a passion to share your gifts with the world.
Because whatever your unique gift is…the world needs it. Now. Stop playing so small and share the fark out of your LoveLight.
And hey…I love you.
“Sexuality is a superpower. Our attractions and repulsions, sexual signals and links, hopes and disappointments go through all of society like a nervous system, permeating every office, every shopping mall, every art exhibition, every conference, every group, every company, every political party. The healing of sexuality is perhaps the most revolutionary step in the present healing work after thousands of years of suppression and neglect.”
DIETER DUHM
There are so many beautiful “rooms” in the Pleasure Dome that have been hidden to us by society’s patriarchal conditioning that sexual pleasure is dirty, forbidden, sinful and taboo. But, this is the thing…sexual pleasure is our birthright. At our core, as my teacher and mentor Jaiya has so eloquently expressed, “we are erotically sophisticated beings and our bodies are our instruments of pleasure,” yet most of us do not fully understand how to play our own instrument nor how to instruct our partners on how to do so.
A true understanding of the power of the primordial creative force of our sexuality has been kept from us by the patriarchal religions as a means of domination and control. When we are deeply connected to the sacredness of our sexuality and living a fully sex-expressed life, all areas of our life are affected in a profoundly powerful way. When we are connected to and own our full sexuality, we are living a life filled with vitality, power, pleasure, joy, sovereignty, and most of all, deep love for ourselves and humanity.
Here’s to humanity’s reconnecting to the source of our true power, breaking through the chains of society’s conditioning, and creating a world where everyone is accepted and feels as though they belong. Let freedom ring.
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“Chains…each link is connected…creating strength and resilience to withstand the impending….granting a since of freedom…” ~Jefry
BethLovemore 